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Perkara yang berlaku dua malam lepas datang kembali ke dalam fikiranku. Entah mengapa aku berasa sangat tidak selesa apabila tidak meluahkan perkara ini. Aku rasa sangat janggal dengan suasana ini. Aku tidak selesa memendamnya.
Aku dan rakan-rakan sedang menikmati makan malam di kafe sambil menonton perlawanan bola sepak antara Terengganu dan Selangor. Aku terlihat kelibat gadis manis yang berambut pendek yang aku temui beberapa hari sebelumnya. Sungguh Melayu wajahnya, membuatkan aku sedikit terkejut dengan penampilannya yang bersahaja di kafe.
Mustahil orang Melayu! Aku cuba menafikan andaianku. Masakan tidak. Sekiranya si gadis itu benar-benar Melayu Islam sudah pasti penampilannya yang tidak bertudung itu akan ditegur –– kalau bukan oleh pengawal keselamatan, mungkin oleh mana-mana pelajar yang lain.
Sewaktu dia menuju ke meja makan bersama dua orang rakan Melayunya, aku terlihat lambang pada belakang T-shirt yang dipakainya. Lambang salib yang cukup besar dan jelas dilihat oleh setiap orang yang berada di kafe ketika itu dari setiap sudut, kecuali sudut buta.
Contoh lambang.
Aku tidak pelik malah aku tertanya-tanya sekiranya gadis itu merupakan pelajar sekolah Sacred Heart, sebuah sekolah Kristian Katolik yang terletak di belakang Dataran Pahlawan, Melaka. Tetapi jelas kelihatan riak muka yang pesimis, mungkin tidak selesa, di kalangan pelajar Melayu Muslim yang lain. Aku lihat pandangan tajam seorang pelajar lelaki yang berkopiah berhampiran meja gadis itu. Aku mengandaikan dia, dan yang lain, tidak suka dengan baju yang dipakai oleh gadis itu.
Rakan-rakanku juga seperti mereka yang lain. Salah seorang daripadanya meluahkan perasaan terkejut dan kecewanya dengan tindakan gadis itu yang pada fikirannya ‘tidak menghormati sensitiviti’ pelajar Melayu Muslim yang menjadi puak majoriti di sini.
Lalu aku bertanya kepadanya : “Adakah kita menghormati mereka?” Rakanku itu terdiam.
Aku adalah bekas pelajar Sekolah Menengah Kebangsaan Agama (SMKA) tetapi aku mempunyai ramai kawan yang bukan Muslim. Aku bergaul dengan mereka seperti biasa. Mereka menghormati aku dan aku menghormati mereka. Kami selesa bersama. Tetapi tidak bagi kebanyakan pelajar di sini. Di universiti ini.
Adakah tindakan gadis itu tidak menghormati sensitiviti penganut Islam di sini? Aku tidak bersetuju sekiranya ada yang berkata “Ya!”.
Islam tidak menentang penganut agama lain untuk mengamalkan agama mereka selagi mana penganut agama lain itu tidak menggangu atau tidak menghormati umat Islam untuk mengamalkan agama Islam. Kebebasan beragama ada dalam Islam tetapi bukan kepada umat Islam kerana umat Islam yang murtad akan dihukum. Itu hukum Allah S.W.T. yang wajib dilaksanakan.
Jika benar mereka (bukan Muslim) tidak menghormati kita (Muslim), perkara ini terjadi mesti kerana kita tidak menghormati mereka.
Sebanyak mana yang kita tahu tentang agama kita sendiri hinggakan kita tidak menghormati agama orang lain? Adakah kita benar-benar menghormati agama Islam yang kita warisi ini sehinggakan kita berhak untuk tidak menghormati agama lain?
Aku langsung tidak bermaksud mengutuk atau menghina saudara seagama aku sendiri tetapi persoalan ini adalah untuk semua, termasuk diri aku sendiri.
Bergaullah dengan mereka, saudara seagamaku! Semoga kita dapat memahami mereka dan semoga kita dapat memahami dengan lebih banyak agama Islam kita sendiri.
Aku rasa pos aku kali ini akan menerima lebih banyak pandangan negatif daripada positif. Tidak mengapalah.
يا مقلب القلب ثبت قلبن على دينك وطاعتك
"Wahai Tuhan yang membolak-balikkan hati! Tetapkan hatiku di atas agama-Mu dan ketaatan kepada-Mu."
Understanding a woman / girl is the most complicated matter for me. Yeah, yeah… we had an argument, again, this evening.
Hey! Don’t look at me like that. It just normal for any lovers to picked up oral fight. Listen here.
Arguing couple.
At first, for me, the thing that she told me is so simple and very good. Badly, it wasn’t for her. That is the point that I miss which leads to the argument.
She supposed to take a writing test today (Monday) so she study hardly while she was home this (last) weekend. Of course, with the effort and hard work, she prepares to answer those questions. However, right after she arrives at her hostel, her lecturer called and said that the test will be postponed to Friday or next week. She was upset with the news and that’s why she calls me for moral support.
Okay. I told her “that is a very good news ‘coz you got time to add up any information thus strengthen your readings”. She hung up the phone and texting me.
OMG! That was my point of view on ‘moral support’ but not to her. She said if she tells me something like that again, in the future, just listen! One more time. JUST LISTEN!
Supportive couple.
“Without any responds?” I asked her and guess what the answer?
“Just if I asked for it,” she said.
Phew! That was a very good lesson for me. And for us, hopefully.
I was watching Forrest Gump with my friends when suddenly my girlfriend texting me. It was about 3 am in the morning. The question is “Are we in the right path, honey?
I did not really understand what the question is so I asked her. She questions me again: “What is my mission on her?”
And I tell her the straight answer.
Now, I am wondering. Is there anything wrong with me? Am I hurting her? All kind of negative questions come non-stop.
I asked myself the question again, and I think about it. About us, me and her, are we in the right path? I believe we are.
It is normal for any loving couple (including forcedly love couple) to argue each other, even for a very simple matter. For me, arguing is one of the most important parts for couples to strengthen their relationship, improving it and to ensure the relationship stay as long as possible. Even for ever.
But, we already solve our problem together two days ago. What is happening now?
If she asks the question just to make sure that I am serious with her, of course I am. If not, I wouldn’t go to met her during our first date ever (refer 10 bulan, 10 minit) and go to her family open house in Ipoh lately (refer Aidilfitri yang sangat indah...) etc.
If you read this post, Baby, yes we are in the right path.
Now, I would like to ask the same question to you, dear respected readers. Are you in the right path? General thought(s), in any aspects that you want to share with me and others.
Lately, there’s something happen in this varsity. Students’ voice for reformation. For years, since the legendary KUSZA transform into UDM, there are no leaderships that really bring the students’ voice to the old geeks (administration) except the present SRC. Congratulation, guys! You are the kind of leaders that we need so much. Hope the incoming leaders will be as brave as you guys.
History shows us that reformation in university is something normal, and it’s a need. In UDM context, is reformation is possible?
Before I give my thought(s) on that, let me tell you what kind of reformation that I mean. Reforming lie into truth, reforming bribery into honesty etc. related. I hope this will make the topic clear to all of you, dear respected readers.
Yes, reformation is possible in UDM!
Here comes another question. If the students unite and make a neutral reformation movement, what will happen?
Theorically, if there is demonstration(s) like has happened in Universiti Malaya (UM) etc. before, our police and soldier wannabe (SUKSIS and PSTD) will be ordered by the admin to act on the demonstrators. This is just a theory. This thing never happened in other universities but it might happen here.
Some of the SUKSIS members.
How these SUKSIS and PSTD members will be ordered to do that?
Easy question. Both of them are under influence of the administration. The old geeks already take over the varsity Security Department and they had done the same to both SUKSIS and PSTD also.
Okay. If that time comes, what will be happened next?
Theorically, again, if the Security Department which backed up by SUKSIS and PSTD members being order to act ‘over what we can imagine’ toward the demonstrators, this varsity will be havoc of course! But, the most interesting thing to be think, or imagine, is will the police and soldier wannabe act like been ordered?
This is a question of moral. If I am one of them, I will not act on the students.
Ouch! I got to go but with a question to those SUKSIS and PSTD members.
Will you act like been ordered towards the reformist, which any one of them might be your friend?
Think about it and answer me please.
Actually, I heard this from one of the old geeks in our admin.
